Thriving Relationships
GUIDANCE & HEALING FOR INDIVIDUALS OR COUPLES LOOKING TO TURN THEIR DISPAIR AROUND AND THRIVE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP - EVEN IF YOU'VE TRIED THERAPY BEFORE!
Hello,
Tehilla here. Welcome to The Couples Connection. If you're looking for support and healing for your relationship - you've come to the right place. And you can do this on your own, or with your partner.
Considering coaching or counseling can evoke a mix of emotions, and I am here to support you every step of the way. Within this space, you will find a safe haven, free of judgment and blame, where you (and your partner, if they join) can openly explore and nurture your relationship.
I know that whatever brought you here hasn't been easy. You know that something needs to change, that there has to be more to life and love than what you're currently experiencing. I honor your journey and a so proud of you for being here - reaching out can be so vulnerable and takes so much courage.
I have had the privilege of helping hundreds of people release their shackles to their past beliefs and conditionings, and reparent themselves to find how good life actually get's to be. To wake up happy, confident, and excited to be alive. Feel loved and that life has their back.
I am here to help you regain the confidence you once had in the things you hoped for (even if it's been years since you felt it), and regain the surety you once felt in life (even if that was last when you were an infant)!
If you're a couple looking for support in navigating your relationship, or an individual looking to navigate your life, exhaustion, identity, or relationships - I've got you!
How good would it feel for you to feel really heard and understood again?
"Our kids walked in on us kissing in the kitchen and said we need to stop seeing you now"
There are 3 Ways to work with me:
- 1:1 Online or Fly-In for couples or individuals. Intensives or at your own pace,
- World-Class self-paced, video courses
- Waitlist for my annual ladies group, Marriage, Motherhood, and Me (April 2024)
"I absolutely love your wealth of knowledge beyond my issue. You connect dots that I didn't see. You held space for me, no matter where the session brought us. I know I was a tough nut to crack because my mind wouldn't allow me to go places, but with the trust you had in me, I could do it." SF
Many people that come to me have been to therapy before. They have tried the traditional talk therapy once-a-week route and found it wasn't enough to create the lasting impact they needed.
As a mom, wife, licensed counselor, international coach, and mentor I take pride in making sure I offer strategies and sessions that work - not only sounding good in the office but that you can implement at home too!
Needless to say...
I DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY!
- Our sessions are a minimum of 90 minutes each (and 3 hours for couples joint sessions). These longer sessions allow us to get done in a day that would typically take weeks. (And for those of you worried about longer sessions being too long - I often hear those concerns, but ALL my clients comment on how fast the time then goes and how grateful they are for the time to fully process and be heard).
- I am more directive. I don't just nod my head and listen (like movies can poorly illustrate a therapist's role).
- I offer plenty of strategies (my multidisciplinary approach is based on my deep thirst for practical knowledge and tools) but I also use mindset, visualizations, emotional intelligence, and somatic (body) work, and I am spiritually led (Christian without judgment or condemnation).
- When working with couples on their relationship in couples' sessions and individual sessions, making sure you each grow into the healthiest members of your couple.
- I do body (somatic) work too. I help you release the trapped emotions in your body through my unique Body-EQ method as well as learn to rebuild the relationship with your body. We are mind, body, and spirit and when we use all three of these elements we are mighty capable and powerful.
- I offer high-ticket fly-in (to any destination in the world, or I can set up a South African safari of wildlife or sea experience) for weekend or weeklong intensives. These are VIP experiences and only for 1 couple at a time.
- I do not judge. My clients all comment somewhere along the line about how safe they feel with me. I see you for who you really are until you do too. And you're not bad - like you might think you are.
- I am selective with whom I work. The selection process makes sure we are a great fit and have the best chance for success for you!
- I do an assessment with my couples. After many years I noticed that the symptoms (usually poor communication) are a result of many childhood elements, so we do a deep assessment to make sure we work on all the layers and not just the presenting symptoms.
- I use BWRT (Brainworking Recursive Technique) to help deactivate active triggers and traumatic memories (especially useful for affair recovery and bad childhood experiences that keep showing up).
- I believe in you until you do too.
- I believe trusting yourself is vital to any relationship's depth and success and is a big factor in what I work with you on.
- I offer containers based on a deep understanding of how things typically work for my couples (yet very individually tailored). My work isn't just theoretical fluff but practical and transformational (if you're committed to learning about yourself in the process).
- I'm not scared of what you're going through, because I can see you for who you really are and what you are capable of.
- I love bringing in spirituality if you're open to it too.
Our relationship arguments are RARELY about the situation at hand but reminders of the pain of unmet needs from the past.
Couples
Navigating love in today's world can be so tough. And it's not your fault you are here. There is no fix-all manual for this (that's why I've studied soo many different modalities to be able to help myself and my clients with a mixture of tools).
But if you'd like to see how you can transform your relationship from tip-toeing and resentment to fun, laughter, and connection, read more about my offers here.
Individuals
As a working, married mother of two children near in age, I get it.
Life looks so easy on social media, your friends possibly look up to you - thinking you are one of those 'lucky' sorted ones, but you feel lonely, exhausted, and unheard / unseen.
Being a good girl can only get you so far, before your soul starts calling you back to be who you were made to be.
If you'd like to know more about how to work with me, click here.
"I would highly recommend your services and guidance to anyone who truly wants to heal and grow. Your ability to reveal the most vulnerable places to heal and provide awareness and self-healing tools is exceptional. Your intuitive ability is far from traditional talk-therapy, but rather a far deeper, more holistic healing process. The relationship with you has been truly life-changing."
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Global Online Sessions
Fly in Safari-Retreat Sessions in South Africa
The Couples Connection
Tehilla Luttig
Owner & Mentor
Registered (Licensed) Private
Pr No 0538396 Reg No PRC0016837
(Hons. BSocSci Psychology - UCT 2007)
Certified Life Coach
Licensed BWRT practioner
